Nicola hare - The reset therapist

What Stress and Burnout Can Feel Like

Stress and burnout affect people differently, but common experiences include:

  • Persistent fatigue, even after rest

  • Feeling overwhelmed or unable to switch off

  • Loss of motivation or enjoyment

  • Increased irritability or anxiety

  • Difficulty concentrating or making decisions

  • Feeling detached from work, relationships, or yourself

You might find yourself asking questions like 'what's wrong with me?' or 'why can't I cope like I used to?'

How Counselling Can Help

Counselling isn’t about 'fixing' you—it’s about understanding what’s happening and finding a way forward that works for you. Exploring the root causes of your stress and burnout can help us to identify patterns that might be keeping you stuck. Developing healthier ways of coping, responding and processing emotional load can help you restore a sense of balance, energy and control. It is a space where you don't have to push on and more and hold everything together. You can pause, decompress and recover.

A Personalised Approach

There is no one-size-fits-all solution to stress and burnout. Our work together is tailored to you, to your experiences, your pace, and your goals.

Depending on your needs, therapy may include:

  • Talking therapy to explore thoughts and feelings

  • Boundary-setting and work-life balance support

  • Techniques to calm the mind and body

  • Reflective work to reconnect with what matters to you

  • Somatic exploration

  • Rebirthing / Conscious Connected Breathwork

When to Consider Therapy

You don’t need to wait until things feel unmanageable. If stress is affecting your sleep, mood, health or relationships you might benefit from seeking help now. If you struggle to switch off, relax or be present with others, feel constantly overwhelmed, emotionally drained or disconnected from yourself and others it might be time to stop, regroup and find a more sustainable way forward.

Another sign that seeking support now could prevent burnout is if work or life pressures that previously felt manageable now feel too much to handle. Seeking support early can prevent burnout from becoming more severe.

What to Expect

Starting therapy can feel like a big step, especially if you’re used to handling things on your own. I offer a confidential, supportive space where you can talk openly without judgement to help you gain clarity on your inner experience. Just stopping and being heard and understood is often a big relief for some people. There is no pressure to have the words to explain your inner experience, or to have everything figured out.

Moving Forward

Recovering from stress and burnout isn’t about becoming more productive or pushing yourself harder. It’s about understanding your limits, reconnecting with your needs, and creating a way of living that feels sustainable. With the right support, it’s possible to feel more grounded, more in control, and more like yourself again.

Get in Touch

If you’re struggling with stress or burnout and want to explore how counselling could help, you’re welcome to reach out. Taking that first step can feel difficult but it can also be the beginning of meaningful change.

Stress & Burnout - why do I feel so exhausted all the time?

Feeling constantly overwhelmed, exhausted, or emotionally drained can be a sign that stress has gone beyond something manageable. Burnout doesn’t happen overnight, it builds over time, often leaving you feeling stuck, detached, or unable to cope in the way you used to.

Counselling and psychotherapy offer a space to step back, understand what’s happening, and begin to recover in a way that’s realistic and sustainable.

Counselling and psychotherapy for Stress & Burnout in Crawley and online